Who needs Valentine’s Day? Grace Maxwell dishes on the real holiday us dykes should be looking forward to!

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Sure, Lesbians are synonymous with U-Hauls. But ever attempted to actually pack one? Let alone haul it halfway around the world?

Grace Maxwell gives you the 411 on how not only to pick up and move but to maintain your sanity while doing so.

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Ah, coming out; as a lesbian this is one of my favorite topics of discussion. There are so many things to consider as a homosexual individual, even if you’ve already established yourself as totally gay to your nearest and dearest. Should you correct an acquaintance if they assume you are heterosexual? Should you tell relatives a generation or two older? Do you need to inform old friends an…

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It was a rainy afternoon one Sunday and I was hanging out at my parents house. Bored, I began foraging through the shelves of my sister’s old room in the hopes of finding something “intellectually stimulating” to read. Alas, my search was fruitless, and I came away with what can only be described as a self-help book for the sad and insecure (sorry sis), entitled “The Rules of Love” by Richard…

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With Halloween being said and done and Thanksgiving right around the corner, you know what that means… ‘Tis the season for gift giving!

Not sure what to buy that special ex, pseudo-girlfriend, GF, NSLP? No worries. Grace Maxwell has thrown together a gift guide to aide in your search.

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The definitive guide to coming out, courtesy of Grace The Spot… only because other guides really, really, really suck.

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Grace Maxwell lists some unpleasant situations queer women go through while socializing with non-queer folks. Homophobia? No. The mildly annoying, awkward, and just plain “…” things. Nothing major to start a revolution over, but enough to write a blog post about.

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Yesterday, I received the following message from my NSLP:”Why do the people who want to talk always win? Why can’t the people who don’t want to talk win?

Why can’t people button up like in the 40’s? People saw terrible things in the war, but they didn’t go on about it, they had a cup of tea and invented the NHS.”
There is such a thing as sharing…

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Since our Labor Day Haikus of the weekend, Grace Maxwell has not been able to stop thinking about beer… or women. She also discovered that her feelings about both are oddly similar.

But are American women and beer really that trashy? More inside!

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Before the film there was a book. Grace Maxwell reviews Shamim Sharif’s I Can’t Think Straight, which has been adapted into a film that has been screened all over the world this year.

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