I shop almost exclusively at the ‘mens’ section in stores, but (apparently)looking much like an androgynousteenage boy myself, I manage to get away without people acting like I’m out of place. Dare I go to the changing rooms to try anything on though… One shop assistant actually forcefully barred me from the ladies room once, but I think he was just trying to get me to flash him

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Never underestimate the power of a good pair of shoes. They can make you feel sexy and powerful. If this were not an essential truth, we wouldn’t have spent so much time on this site talking about footwear. And sometimes shoe shopping can set the heart aflutter.

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Grace Brightman talks about attending her prom and running for Prom Queen dressed in gender bending 19th century period drama duds.

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The horror! Prom is now upon me! And I’ll have to dress up? Note: Before you start thinking of the American version, in England it’s a bit different.

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While other sites debate things like DADT and same sex marriage, Grace The Spot readers debate what really gets lesbians riled up: cuddling, labels and now… a shoe brand called Vibram Fivefingers. Guest Grace @yodelmachine rebuts Grace Fox’s post against Bigfoot shoes.

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We cannot let Vibram creep into the fashion lexicon of our community. It took long enough for us to transcend that whole Birkenstock stereotype and, if lesbians start buying these shoes en masse, we will never live it down. This is the sort of fashion mistake from which people do not recover. So, let us be vigilant. If you see a lesbian wearing these, wrestle the damn things off of her woman-lovin’ feet. Friends don’t let friends wear ugly shoes!

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Yesterday I asked the Graces to write about their favorite pair of shoes – with one limitation: they weren’t allowed to talk about Converses, because with this crowd, this post would have been ended up being a sea of Chucks. Fortunately, we have some non-American Graces to shake things up here.

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Purses? Messenger Bags? Backpacks? Pockets? Grace Downunder ponders… What’s the ultimate lesbian bag of choice?

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I have seen way too many fucked up tats of Chinese characters. Since I try to be non-judgmental to people’s faces, I will simply smile, turn away and roll my eyes. IF YOU ARE GETTING A TATTOO IN A LANGUAGE YOU ARE NOT LITERATE IN, PLEASE GET IT APPROVED BY SOMEONE LITERATE IN SAID LANGUAGE BEFORE YOU INK.

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Grace O’Neill jumps on the bandwagon and weighs in on the sudden controversy surrounding little Shiloh Jolie and her tomboyish tendencies.

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