 | Stuff Lesbians Like 45: Gay PornBy Grace Yip |
We’ve all watched porn. The standard made-fer-womyn-by-womyn lezzie porn or perhaps “straightzie” porn for those who don’t know any better (“straightzie” porn = “lesbian” porn for straight men starring bored long-nailed stillettoed women with oddly-hued orange skin from tan-in-a-can sporting inflated boobulars that point in wayward directions). Some of you may have been exposed to really fnarked up shizz like alien porn, barnyard animal porn, little people porn, Ron Jeremy porn (eww), Jenna Jameson (ech) and themed porn, like “Pirates.”
The aforementioned types of porn can be succinctly described with one of the three following phrases:
- Borrrrrrriiiinnnggg. Or fuuuugggggllly. (lezzie porn)
- FAKE!! in so many ways, particularly the unenthusiastic moaning/grunting (straightzie porn)
- WTF!? (fnarked porn)
Ultimately, they can be summed up with a mere “meh” or “gross”. Perhaps this is the very reason why lezzies seem to gravitate towards gay porn. Although we have to deal with close-ups of sweaty schlong’n’balls, at least the men are beautifully ripped and can’t fake an orgasm (guaranteed genuine every time like the prize at the bottom of a Cracker Jack box). It could be that we’re merely watching to pick up schlong-wielding techniques or getting the penis envy out of our system… or not.
Whatever the reason, lezzies like gay porn. Standing in the back of your local independent video store, you’ll stare at the one shelf of lezzie porn and can’t help but turn your head towards the rest of the room, where there are walls upon walls of hot gay porn. What are you in the mood for? Jock porn? Check. Leather porn? Check. Got a thing for uniforms? There’s an entire section, further divided by firefighter, police and military. Impressive, eh?
Ahh gay porn. There’s no need to keep it a secret any longer dear friends! LEZZIES LIKE GAY PORN!
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July 1st, 2008 at 2:27 am
[Update: Deleted my comment and made it into a post. - Grace Chu]
July 1st, 2008 at 1:23 pm
I feel much better about my status as a lesbian after reading this post.
July 1st, 2008 at 1:53 pm
Queer is queer is queer….
and lezzies liking gay porn is pretty damn queer.
July 1st, 2008 at 5:40 pm
Whew, I was afraid I may be turning into a transexual gay man
July 1st, 2008 at 5:41 pm
Not that there is anything bad with being a transexual gay man, but it’s too much work for me to get there.
July 1st, 2008 at 6:42 pm
But see, there’s old school leeeeeeeezzzzzzbian porn (feeeeelings. and soft music. and touching and stroking) and then there’s, like, dyke porn (see, “Crash Pad”). V. different, both, from the lezzie porn aimed at straight guys.
One time a group of us, very mixed with straights, gayboys, and queer girls, decided to have chicken and porn night. So we got a gayboy porn, a dyke porn, and a straight porn.
The gay boy porn was like “Hi! I’m the plumber. [straight into the action]”
The straight porn had a lot of attempted acting. It was painful for that.
The dyke porn involved nipple clamps, a dildo, a chain link fence, and a woman who was at least seven months pregnant. We had to turn it off, we were so scarred.
July 2nd, 2008 at 2:22 pm
Heh, I guess I never understood why the lesbians like boy-on-boy porn so much.
Though, I would agree that it seems that at least on boy-on-boy porn, there seems to be more of a chance of more definite chemistry going on between the *ahem* actors. I’ve tried watching straight and straight girl-on-girl porn and it’s either “ewww!” because it’s so fake, and everything seems so forced. With boy-on-boy porn, the chemistry seems so much more real–and it seems that nearly all my friends have been in a porn, in one way or another.
Except me, of course. Dammit.
July 3rd, 2008 at 9:05 pm
I feel better about myself now…
July 3rd, 2008 at 9:06 pm
By the way, nice strategic censorship.
July 10th, 2008 at 6:57 am
Awesome i thought i was the only one!Thx Grace your site is really great!
July 16th, 2008 at 3:32 pm
Let’s not forget about pterodactyl porn …
August 26th, 2008 at 12:46 am
As a straight-identified girl, what could possibly be bad about TWICE the number of gorgeous, hung (usually), horny dudes in a porn scene??? Plus, I myself LOVE eating ass, and there’s a lot more of it, and more earnestly, than in straight porn.
I guess I’m pretty devoted to male pleasure, mentally and physically, and seeing how much the guys enjoy it (most of the time)–well there ya go.
August 27th, 2008 at 4:29 pm
Nope, don’t really get it, have trouble agreeing with you, too.
[Disclaimer: I'm male, completely straight when it comes to relationships/sex, completely gay when it comes to hating on bad bridesmaid dresses, and I'm very fond of Grace Yip in real life.]
I’ve watched gay porn. I’ve probably watched more gay porn than any other straight man in the world that isn’t a video editor or a bartender in a gay bar. It fascinates me: partly because “HEY! PORN! WEENIES!!” (I’m still 6 years old), but also because DAMN, they are fucking the HELL out of each other. Gay porn is freakin’ ANGRY. It’s like “I hate you, I hate you so much I’m going to try to stab you to death with my dingdong. I’m going to STAB you, over and over and over, in your pooper, trying to dingdongstab you to death.”
Seriously, that’s some aggressive “doing” there. I speculate there is something about that that is appealing to you. You can’t really find that level of aggression in straight porn. Well, you can, but I don’t think you can find it without a lot of humiliation/degradation/subjugation of the woman/women.
I agree that waaaay too much of the “lesbian porn for straight guys” is fake, tired, strained and boring. I have, however, seen the rare piece in which the women seem to be genuinely and thoroughly enjoying themselves and each other. (Of course, I’m a guy, so I’m genetically incapable of knowing what women are feeling in any way, shape or form, right?)
Oh, and Jen, if you’re single….
P-)
September 1st, 2008 at 5:48 am
Thank you, for this list.
October 1st, 2008 at 10:25 am
For me it’s not live action guy/guy porn, it’s Japanese anime yaoi or yaoi manga. I love reading or watching male romance stories. And if it happens to have sex, that’s good too.
November 5th, 2008 at 12:33 pm
November 6th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
What the hell? Stab to death? They both enjoy it..
Wow straight guys are dense! Why are you here if you’re straight?
November 7th, 2008 at 1:26 am
Did I even suggest that either of them didn’t enjoy it? No, I didn’t. Though, if we’re honest, we don’t know for sure that they are both enjoying it. To us it is porn, to them it is a job, and not everybody loves their job. But let us stipulate, for the sake of argument that they are both enjoying themselves. They are both enjoying themselves whilst engaging in some very aggressive sex. In what way does pointing that out make me dense? If your complaint had been that using a phrase like “dingdongstab” is, perhaps, a bit puerile, sure, you’d have a cogent argument. As it stands, you are saying “well, you said it was aggressive, but I say that they are enjoying it. Even though those are in no way exclusive, this makes you dense… and it also makes dense all people who share your your orientation and gender.” People familiar with fallacious arguments might call that “argument by generalization”.
And what’s with the “why are you here if I’m straight?” The implication in a statement like that is that I shouldn’t be here. Are you saying that I shouldn’t?
November 11th, 2008 at 5:13 pm
Then how is straight sex not referred to as “stabbing”? I think you’re watching the wrong gay porn, I’ve never seen violent sex in gay porn (at least not yet).
No, I just see no appeal for you to be here, you being a guy AND straight.. And whoa, you’re trying to pick up a girl online, just simply because she says she is straight?
November 14th, 2008 at 10:21 am
1) I didn’t refer to straight sex as “stabbing” because, while it happens there, too, that was not the topic at hand.
2) Maybe, just maybe, there really isn’t a right or wrong kind of porn. Just an idea.
3) You see no appeal for me to be here. Is it possible that you aren’t the one and only unilateral decider of who belongs where? Oh, wait, I shouldn’t be here because I’m a straight male! Oh, okay. Of course, if I were to say you weren’t welcome to post on some other forum because you were a gay female, I’m going to guess that you would find that somewhat offensive, sexist, homophobic and discriminatory. And you’d be right. So don’t turn around and do it to somebody else. (I don’t know that you actually are gay and female, but it’s implied.)
4) I tried to pick up a girl online?
A) If I really were trying to “pick [her] up”, I didn’t exactly put much effort into it. Hell, I didn’t even finish the sentence. Gee, it’s almost as if it were a lighthearted joke.
B) I suspect you were the only one who took that at all seriously.
C) Even beyond that, you still didn’t understand what you read.
And, for the sake of anybody else who might be reading, this is my last post on this article.
November 22nd, 2008 at 11:40 pm
you are SO awesome. Seriously! I hope there are more straight men like you out there.
December 1st, 2008 at 7:17 pm
Mary,
I don’t know if you’re being sarcastic or not. Regardless, don’t lose any sleep over it either way: there isn’t anybodylike me out there, straight or gay, man or woman. Whether this is a good thing or a bad thing, is left as an exercise for the reader.
December 15th, 2008 at 9:04 pm
Wow this list keeps getting gayer and gayer (heh)
I’m a gay girl. Don’t watch gay porn. Nope. The idea of watching two guys fuck, or even seeing dick and balls is not remotely close to anything that might appeal to me.
I’m seriously starting to think this whole list is made by a gay guy. Cause this is like crazy banana shit.
Also there is some really good lesbian porn out there. You’ve obviously never seen any Girlfriend Films, Triangle Films or Viv Thomas. I personally cannot stand real ‘dyke’ porn. Its a turn off. Butch women are a turn off. I’m a femme, I only date femmes. Alot of the girls in the lez porn I mentioned are lesbian/bi irl. It’s a stereotypical myth that gay women don’t like to wear makeup, have long nails (or even femmy manicured nails), wear heels, etc etc etc.
WHY are you perpetuating these stereotypes with your dumb list? Or you must be a butch dyke and think ALL lesbians are this way. Uh, no, they’re not.
December 15th, 2008 at 10:30 pm
i haven’t used this phrase in at least 10 years but…
ROFL!!
ahhh. it’s so good to laugh when you least expect it.
December 15th, 2008 at 10:35 pm
Yeah, you’re such a butch!
January 3rd, 2009 at 11:28 pm
I’ve seen those made-for-straight-men “lesbian” porn DVD’s, and they’re SUCH a waste. Bleach-blond girls with DD tits and 5inch nails using vibrators on each other? OUCH! No thanks!
Straight porn makes me sick… Queer as Folk, however… Now that’s a damn amazing show!
January 28th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Hi “Pirate”. I just want to comend you on your clean and respectful defense
Also, congrats on being comfortable enough to admit to the large amount of gay porn you have seen (albeit heterosexual).. and I hope you do not take this comment of mine to be sarcastic, because I do intend for it to be.
Best Regards,
A Lesbian Reader Fond of “STUFF LESBIANS LIKE” Articles
February 25th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
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February 27th, 2009 at 12:21 pm
haha, oh my god.. I see that I put “I hope you do not take this comment of mine to be sarcastic, because I * DO * intend for it to be” when I honestly meant to say: I do NOT intend for it to be [sarcastic].. My above comment was sincere.
ahh, damn typos!
March 2nd, 2009 at 6:00 pm
March 13th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
I second that- its Yaoi nuf said. ^-~
July 13th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
Grace Yip, if you’re one of those dykes who love gay male porn than that’s fine by me.
What isn’t fine by me is your implying that femme-femme / girl-girl porn is all “fake” and that gay male porn is all “real”. Those are absurd and ignorant assumptions with no real basis in fact. And you very clearly don’t really have a clue what you are talking about
The truth is that a lot of the women and men who perform in porn are just “sexual” or bisexual/ pansexual to some extent and one way or another. And many of them make gay, bi, lesbian, trans and straight porn. Whatever they can bring themselves to do on camera.
There are lots of men who perform in gay porn who are not gay I can assure you. Some of those who are not gay are not even bisexual enough to ever really want sex with another man in real life. And others who are bisexual enough for that still have no interest in other men romantically at all. They do have ways of faking arousal when they perform. This can include looking at or watching straight or girl-girl porn and being “fluffed” by women on set – quite often their real their wife or girlfriend. Then using a cock ring and or viagra or some other drug to maintain an erection long enough to perform a gay sex scene.
There are also techniques for faking male orgasms / ejaculation in porn as well.
And why do many straight male porn performers do gay porn if they can?
Answer: Because it generally pays much better than doing straight porn.
In straight porn the female performers invariably get paid a lot more than the men. Which is also why some female porn stars who are lesbians in real life (femme-looking lesbians obviously) work mainly in straight hetero hardcore porn. It pays better than girl-girl.
October 30th, 2009 at 10:30 am
Really great content, I learnt a lot from reading this.
January 12th, 2010 at 4:17 am
Great information on this site. I love reading your posts. Thanks a lot!
January 12th, 2010 at 4:24 am
I’m learning more everyday reading your blog. Thanks for all the hard work. I’m looking forward to more reading here!
January 24th, 2010 at 5:36 pm
My lesbian status feels bona-fide now that i’ve read this.
I’ve felt CRAZY for loving gay porn for a little while now, so thanks for the update!
LOL @ Straight Guy who commented above btw, haha. It really makes no sense to “disagree” with someone’s preference, especially when he himself has watched ‘a lot’ of gay porn while avowedly NOT being interested in teh Dick in real life.
(Just like lesbians are not interested in ‘real life’ dick.. HMMM, interesting similarity!!!)
February 27th, 2010 at 1:26 am
I thought I was the only one… haha
June 8th, 2010 at 10:55 am
OMG THIS HAS JUST MADE MY DAY , WELL MAYBE LIFE !!! THANK-YOU THANK-YOU !!! U C I AM 51 AND JUST SOME BACK GROUND ON ME .. WAS WITH AN 8 YR OLD WHEN I WAS 8, DR AND NURSE WAS REALLY FUN
[ DON'T GET STUPID IDEAS W/WHAT I JUST SAID WE WERE BOTH 8 ]… SO YES I WAS BORN LESBIAN .. THEN FOR 25 YEARS I TRYED PLAYING THE HEDRO THING BECAUSE THAT WAS WHAT SOCIETY SAID WAS” normal ” … I HAVE BEEN OUT SINCE AND IDENTIFY AS LESBIAN/FEMME .. OK, 2 THE MORAL OF THE STORY, I LOVE WATCHING GAY PORN !! THIS HAS WORRIED ME FOR MANY YEARS I THOUGHT I MIGHT NOT BE LESBIAN .. A FEW YEARS AGO I WAS AT A GAY RESORT IN ST PETE AND WAS WALKING FROM OUR ROOM BACK TO THE BAR AS I WALKED PAST A HALL A SAW 2 GUYS HAVING WILD SEX .. OMG I STARTED MASTERBATING [NO SP CK] WATCHING THEM I CAME IN 2 MINUTES .. IT WAS GREAT !!!! I WALKED BACK IN BAR STRAIGHT TO RESTROOM . MY G/F ASK WHAT WAS GOING ON ,I SAID, OOOO LONG STORY ACTUALLY I LIED IT WAS A SHORT STORY … LOLOL !! I HAVE ALWAYS SAID LESBIAN PORN IS SO FAKE, MANY PEPS NEVER UNDERSTOOD SO I THOUGHT AGAIN MAYBE I AM NOT LESBIAN … AND I HAVE NEVER UNDERSTOOD THE BI SHIT, EITHER UR OR U AINT !!! AND HOW MANY TIMES DO WE HERE OF A BUTCH THAT FALLS IN LOVE W/ A BI AND THEN THE BI GOES BACK TO A MAN !!! ELLEN IS A GOOD DESCRIPTION OF THIS SADNESS … I AM INTO THE BUTCH/FEMME DYNAMICS , A WHILE BACK I FELT SORRY WHEN A BUTCH WOULD GET HURT BY A BI FEMALE, THEN ANN LEFT ELLEN I STOPPED FELLING SORRY FOR THE BUTCH because U SHOULD HAVE REALIZED FROM ELLENS PAIN AND WISED UP !!!
June 9th, 2010 at 8:54 am
Wow.
July 13th, 2010 at 2:55 pm
I consider myself 100% lesbian. When I heard about this all I tried to watch some gay male porn, but it just doesn’t make anything for me. I feel attraction only to women, and there have to be something to do with them for me to get turned on.
I personally think you have to feel some sexual attraction to male bodies to get turned on by watching gay men’s porn. Doesn’t mean you must have a desire to have sex with a man, and that makes perfect sense – there’s propably not so many 100% gay or straight people, so with right circumstances (not so much good lesbian porn, sexist straight porn) people with a small sexual attraction to men may find their like in this.
July 13th, 2010 at 3:02 pm
“In straight porn the female performers invariably get paid a lot more than the men. Which is also why some female porn stars who are lesbians in real life (femme-looking lesbians obviously) work mainly in straight hetero hardcore porn. It pays better than girl-girl.”
Judy Star for example.
July 13th, 2010 at 3:15 pm
One more thing about sexual attraction, I know some women who have to think about men during masturbation to orgasm, but they consider themselves lesbians, because they want to be with women, at least at that time.
Simirarly, on one forum I’ve read a story of some girl who get turned on only by lesbian porn and have to think about women during sex with her boyfriend to have orgasm. But that was straight forum and she was really affraid if she’s lesbian.
November 29th, 2010 at 3:40 am
[...] Gay Porn – The most popular post on this site. No joke. Don’t be confused. Lesbians do not love the wang, but they do love to wank. Unfortunately, straight “lesbian” porn is ridiculous, straight porn is basically hate fucking, dyke porn is too weird and “alternative” for the majority of lesbians who have pretty mainstream tastes, so we default to gay male porn, in which the men are pretty and they look like they’re having a good time. [...]
February 15th, 2011 at 4:15 pm
As a female totally dedicated to the ladies…I gotta have my dose of GAY! porn on the side! Honestly, I have no idea why I find something titled ‘Thugs on White Boys’ so fascinating, or why every other genre of porno makes me laugh/bores me to death.
Maybe the fact that a lady isn’t involved on screen? Meh.
February 17th, 2011 at 8:26 am
“Maybe the fact that a lady isn’t involved on screen? Meh.”
You’re sure that women turn you on? Or maybe that “dedication to ladies” is more emotion rather than sexual based?
March 10th, 2011 at 7:18 pm
What about a gay dude who has a fetish for lesbian porn?
I feel like a lone wolf in wilderness with this one and all my gay friends think I’m crackers.
April 24th, 2011 at 3:38 am
I have read this also. There is a lot of stuff about lesbians who watch gay male porn online.
haha makes me laugh. Just makes me think as a gay man how much more of a turn on men are sexually as even lesbians get something out of them whereas gay men have zero interest in lesbain porn. We would not even waste our time with watching 2 women. It just bores us.
I can see if a woman is pretty but I look at the head and its just sexless to me. But I guess I would think that.
ps they say there are double the amount of gay men than gay women is all the surveys but you can see that in most cases when you go out on the gay scene. Always way more gay men than women.
Men win hands down.
April 24th, 2011 at 4:08 pm
@Miles
If you want talk about general numbers, then on that famous study of Bailey’s and Chivers on porn reaction, actually 10% of gay men (in the study group) was more aroused by lesbian porn than gay porn, so you can’t say “It just bores US”, unless you would think that those 10% are bisexual, but it would mean that those ‘lesbians’ are not lesbian. Actually 25% of lesbians in that study were only aroused by lesbian porn.
And since many ‘straight’ women get turned on only by women (there are similar topics about lesbian porn on forums for straight women), I think that simply for many women their identification and actual orientation are two separated things.
May 2nd, 2011 at 1:54 pm
Mr Pirate
I am a lesbian. And I can see your point of view and I think you expressed it poetically. I have many straight and gay guy friends but I have never heard of a straight man like you. I wonder if more exist. I want to meet such an interesting pirate and buy one a beer,
“C” needs to quit over reacting. If you read what he wrote it wasn’t with anger or prejudice. And its the internet anyone can be anywhere. He is bashing anyone so I for one on’t mind. really “C”? He was joking about picking up a girl. He was talking of Jenna Jameson! If he really want to pick some one up he seems smart enough to do it else where.
Sorry for bringing this all up again but that bothered me.
I from time to time have looked at gay porn but I don’t get anything out of it. It is interesting though. In Lez porn I just cant get over the long nails. They gross me out. but I would rather watch it than straight porn or gay porn when I do rarely watch it, since I would rather not look at balls when I am “flick’n the bean.”
May 15th, 2011 at 12:29 pm
@miles
“Men win hands down.”
look at you coming to all the way to a lesbian website to be a misogynistic little sh*t. stfu. seriously.
May 18th, 2011 at 5:23 am
@Miles and @Grace Just because a lesbian (or a bisexual woman or a straight woman) likes gay man porn it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like lesbian porn as well. Many of us simply don’t share your ridiculous sexual hang-ups.
May 24th, 2011 at 4:45 pm
You need to find the right kind of lesbian porn. Yeah, most of it is completely fake, but as said above there are studios out there who specialize in more authentic fare. With actresses who are at least bisexual in many cases. Not every scene is sizzling and you may still encounter fake moaning and a lack of chemistry, but often enough you can clearly see that the girls are attracted to another and really into it. Just see how they kiss and make eye contact. And not all of them are femmes either. Some are somewhere in the middle and there are even a handful of butches like Jiz Lee or Syd Blakovich
Try some Girlfriend Films, Sweetheart Video, Triangle Films, Abby Winters, Girls Out West or Juicy Pink Box. And if you’re into BDSM you need to check out Kink.com (Whipped Ass and Wired Pussy are strictly girl/girl)
May 27th, 2011 at 7:43 pm
This is total bullshit! These women are obviously bisexual and in total denial! To say they like watching gay men porn but don’t like men is like a person saying they like watching kids having sex but that they aren’t a peodophile!
June 10th, 2011 at 5:44 pm
For me personally, my first foray into porn was when I thought I was straight, so it was gay male porn. I started out reading it on a site, and one day I saw a girl/girl story, and I got curious and read it. Long story short, it made me realize I am a lesbian. I don’t watch any types of porn, and I mostly read girl/girl, which definitely gets me going. Sometimes gay male porn will too, but it’s not as effective as girl/girl. I definitely don’t want anything about men sexually, so I’m figuring that what gets me going generally is the act of sex itself. I don’t feel conflicted over that, so that’s what I tell my straight girl friends when they are like, “Well if you like that you must not be a lesbian completely.” But it’s true. Someone could put a naked guy in front of me, and I’d be like, ew. Put a naked girl in front of me and I’m like, hell freaking yeah. And I’ll always take the girl/girl reading over gay male.
I guess I’ll have to try watching videos to see if it still holds true lol. Probably not, considering I’d have to see the naked men.
So if my rambling made any sense to anyone lol…
June 20th, 2011 at 12:42 am
Y’all should read Dan Savage. He talked about studies related to female attraction and the results were very surprising. They measured female arousal with a device and it turned out that women would get aroused by lesbian, straight AND gay porn, even if they vehemently denied being turned on by it. Sexual orientation had nothing to do with it as well, and so researchers are still trying to figure out what this means.
Personally, I don’t think you can make any strong conclusions about orientation based on the porn people watch because what you see in a porno is not necessarily something you want in real life. It’s a fantasy.
June 20th, 2011 at 11:15 am
Brandex, you should read first before you bring such “discovery”. Those were group results, and in those groups there were all Kinsey numbers aside of 3, and particular women showed exclusive arousal, as well as some men showed similar arousal to gay and lesbian porn.
July 12th, 2011 at 11:12 am
But I agree with Brandex, porn is porn and it brings out a lot of weird, subconscious crap in us, shouldn’t be taken too seriously. I’m sure people who watch rape porn don’t necessarily want to be raped, or people who watch porn with pizza guys don’t necessarily want to sleep with the pizza delivery dude, eek! I’ve been turned on by some seriously disturbed things that I would never ever ever want to do in real life, and definitely would not do to my girlfriend… ever.
I do think this topic brings out a lot of insecurities in people and makes them want to prove exactly how big a gay they are and end up sounding no better than a “no-homo” bro. People, going on and on about how non-straight or non-gay you are doesn’t really make your point, =/.
September 30th, 2011 at 4:31 pm
I really miss the butches. We need more butches in porn!!!! I watch for ideas in the bedroom as we use our strap-ons. The so called “lesbian” porn in straight sites is so fake it is bad because that is not how real lesbians do it. I want butch stuff to be included not 9-inch nail and high heels. The women are not even turned on and that is not real gay women porn.
November 19th, 2011 at 10:06 am
I love watching videos and films of lesbians, they
appear to be intent jupon pleasing each other, whereas
we men merely instinctly act on our lust. God bless
all the ladies who are genuine lesbians.
Having said that – I love young gay men.
January 8th, 2012 at 2:31 pm
I see your point about the “chemistry” in these porn genres, but personally I’d go for ANOTHER alternative, which i see wasn’t mentioned in the post…
I’m really suprised only 1 or 2 ppl mentioned yaoi…BUT I can’t believe NO ONE mentioned YURI!!! (Yaoi =anime male/male and yuri = anime girl/girl).Usually yaoi and yuri refer to the relationship paring and it doesn’t mean that there’s any sex invovled in a show. But pair the word with “hentai” and you’ve got porn.
Because the characters are drawn, if you find yuri hentai, the girls will actually look like they’re really into it with each other. LOL It’s so ironic that fake sex displays geniune feeling better than real sex (IMHO, except for porn films of exceptional quality).
Granted, it’s hard to find yuri hentai, but even in straight or yaoi anime porn, the guys are drawn all beautiful they could almost be girls, so it’s cool to watch and often the male “member” is pixilated or otherwise censored anyway. In any case, the advantage of anime porn is that the characters choosing to have sex can be drawn to enjoy it. (Of course, there are exceptions required by different fetishes.)
June 14th, 2012 at 10:54 pm
what happens when you put a LESBIAN and a HOMO together? anyone? each of them would not know what to do.
June 15th, 2012 at 9:06 am
When it comes to mentioned arousability studies, newer studies debunked them. It turned out vaginal reaction, which they measured before, has nothing to do with clitoral erection (homologue to penile erection, which they measure in men).
And aside of that, in all those studies subjective arousal of lesbian group (what they felt as arousing) was always similar to subjective arousal of straight men. Gay porn was ALWAYS considered as the least arousing.
Conclusion? All those lesbians-who-love-gay-porn have to be (very vocal) minority.